What to Do When you Stop Caring about your Appearance

Have you given up style for comfort over the past two years? Have you stopped caring about your appearance?

So many of us have gotten stuck in a fashion rut of wearing loungewear and sweatpants every day, not caring about our appearance, and giving up on having any sense of style.

In today's fashion tip, you'll learn how to make a few small changes to your outfits and morning routine to dress better and feel better about yourself!

Watch the video or read the blog post below!

 
 

You may have noticed in the video that I'm dressed uniquely today, and there's a reason for that. Over the past couple of years, many of you have reached out to me, expressing that you're stuck in a fashion rut. The casual lifestyle of wearing sweats has become the norm, and now you're unsure how to transition back to a more stylish wardrobe. Well, fear not! I'm here to guide you on your journey to break free from this fashion rut and upgrade your look.

Hello, fellow fashionistas! I'm Nancy Queen, and I'm on a mission to help you create a wardrobe full of clothes you love so you look forward to getting dressed every single day. This fashion rut isn't just a result of our recent extended time at home in lockdown; it can happen to anyone experiencing a significant life change. Perhaps you transitioned from a corporate job to being a stay-at-home parent, or maybe you've recently retired or started working from home. These scenarios often lead to a decline in wardrobe variety and style.

If you find yourself in a fashion rut, worry no more. In this blog, I'll share practical tips to help you shake things up and rekindle your love for style. Let's get started on your wardrobe transformation journey!

#1. Make Small Changes

Making small, manageable adjustments rather than drastic changes is the key to breaking free from a fashion rut. When we're at home, it's easy to think that no one will see us, so what we wear doesn't matter. But the truth is, one person sees you daily and matters the most - and that's yourself.

Catching yourself in the mirror, dressed casually with no makeup and hair pulled back, can negatively impact your self-esteem. By making a few simple tweaks to your appearance, you can improve how you feel when you look in the mirror and boost your confidence, productivity, and overall well-being.

Let’s explore easy ways to elevate your everyday look, enhancing both your style and self-image. Stay tuned as we dive into practical tips that will transform your wardrobe and make you feel great about yourself!

A little quick story: Five years ago, my mom passed away, and my dad came to stay with me for about seven months. During this difficult time, I observed something truly inspiring about this wonderful man who was grieving the loss of his wife and had retired from his job. Each day, he would wake up, shower, and dress in a button-down shirt, nice khaki pants, a coordinating belt, and matching shoes. It didn't matter if he was just sitting around watching TV, using his iPad, or taking a leisurely stroll in the neighborhood - he always presented himself well.

My dad's actions taught me an important lesson: It doesn't matter who sees you; you're getting dressed for yourself. So, even if you find yourself in sweats, there are small changes you can make to enhance your look while still maintaining comfort. In this blog, we'll delve into those little adjustments that can elevate your outfit and boost your confidence, no matter what your day looks like.

#2. Try Simple Outfit Tweaks

Here’s a simple example of how I transformed an outfit from being stuck in a fashion rut to looking presentable and stylish:

  1. Start by removing the sweatshirt.

  2. Keep the t-shirt and sweatpants but swap out the slippers for chic gold flat sandals.

  3. Add a versatile and stylish jean jacket.

  4. Accessorize with some cute earrings to add a touch of personality.

  5. Put on a watch for a polished look, and drape a printed scarf to give the outfit some pop.

  6. Grab a cute bag to complete the ensemble if you're heading out.

This entire process takes just a few minutes, and you can top it off with a minimal makeup routine that takes less than five minutes. The goal is to create a polished look that boosts your confidence and makes you feel good about yourself. Remember, transforming your wardrobe doesn't have to be daunting - small changes can make a big difference in how you feel and present yourself to the world.

#3. Choose a Comfortable Middle Ground

Many believe they must either be dressed to the nines or wear casual sweats. However, realizing there's a vast middle ground is essential, and you can gradually ease into a more polished look. There's no need to make a sudden, significant change; instead, embrace small steps that help you rediscover your style and boost your confidence.

For example, tomorrow morning, simply brush your teeth, style your hair, and apply your favorite cosmetic item, be it lipstick or mascara. The next day, add another step or accessory to your routine. You don't need to go all out with hair and makeup as if you're meeting royalty or attending a glamorous event. Focus on making subtle tweaks that reflect your personality and what you love about yourself.

#4. Treat Yourself with Kindness

Taking the time to provide yourself with the tender, loving care you deserve can significantly impact your self-esteem and overall well-being. Embrace these small changes and witness the positive transformation in your appearance, confidence, and everyday life.

As demonstrated, it's possible to modify your outfit while still remaining comfortable in sweats. By making a few changes, you can confidently go anywhere, even to a nice restaurant, and feel like yourself. These adjustments result in a polished appearance that conveys a sense of presence and self-assurance when you're out in public.

We've all experienced those moments when we don't feel our best, and that's when we tend to encounter a neighbor, coworker, or ex-partner whom we'd prefer not to see. To avoid feeling self-conscious in such situations, embrace those little tweaks that can elevate your look and help you feel put together.

#5. Add Pops of Color

If you find that your wardrobe consists mostly of neutrals or lacks excitement, consider adding a pop of color to breathe new life into your outfits. A few simple ways to incorporate color and personality include:

  1. Wearing a vibrant scarf.

  2. Carrying a colorful bag.

  3. Applying a bold lipstick shade.

  4. Donning eye-catching earrings.

By gradually reintroducing colorful elements to your wardrobe, you can reconnect with your personal style and rediscover the joy of dressing up, even if it's just for yourself.

So, go ahead and give these tips a try! Embracing these small changes can make a significant difference in your life, allowing you to express your unique style, boost your confidence, and truly enjoy the process of getting dressed each day.

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