How to Set Your Style and Fashion Goals
As a woman over 50, I believe fashion is more than just following the latest trends – it's about making a personal statement that radiates elegance, confidence, and timeless style. With a new year upon us, I find it's the perfect opportunity to redefine my wardrobe and set new style goals.
I always remind myself that age isn’t an important factor in my fashion choices; fashion can and should be as vibrant and versatile as I am. Let’s explore how to set and achieve this year's fashion, style, and wardrobe goals. Grab a pen and paper to write down your goals and fill in the blanks on these 10 points.
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1. Reflect on Your Current Style
When I take a moment to reflect on my current style, I start by looking through my wardrobe. I ask myself, which pieces do I reach for again and again? These are the items that make me feel most confident and at ease. For me, understanding my current style preferences is crucial. It lays the groundwork for setting realistic and exciting fashion goals.
I recognize the styles that make me feel most like myself, whether it's my favorite cozy sweater that speaks to my love for comfort or that sharp blazer that boosts my confidence in professional settings. Reflecting on this helps me identify not just what I love to wear but why I love to wear it. It's a process of acknowledging my fashion journey so far and paving the way for where I want to go next with my style choices.
2. What inspires you
In my journey to define my personal style, I actively seek out style icons over 50 who inspire me. I am drawn to Meryl Streep, whose effortless elegance always amazes me. There’s something about the way she carries herself and chooses her outfits that speaks to a kind of timeless grace I aspire to. Then there's Viola Davis, whose bold color choices and fearless fashion statements resonate deeply with my own love for vibrant hues and daring designs.
These remarkable women remind me that style knows no age limit and encourage me to experiment and find what truly resonates with my personal aesthetic. It's about seeing a bit of myself in them and using that inspiration to enhance my own unique style narrative.
3. Dress for Yourself
Now that I’m over 50, I've made it a personal goal to always dress in a way that pleases me first and foremost. I've learned that when I wear what makes me feel good, that confidence naturally radiates outward. It’s not just about the clothes themselves, but how they make me feel. Whether it’s a bold print that boosts my mood or a well-tailored dress that makes me feel unstoppable, choosing outfits for my own satisfaction has a profound impact.
This approach not only enhances my self-esteem but also positively influences how others perceive me. It’s empowering to know that by honoring my personal style choices, I'm projecting an image of self-assuredness and positivity to the world.
4. Positive Affirmations
I've incorporated a daily ritual of positive affirmations that focus on my self-image and personal style. Each morning, as I select my outfit for the day, I remind myself with affirmations like 'I am beautifully unique' and 'My style reflects my vibrant personality.'
It may sound silly, but these aren’t just words; they’re powerful reminders that help me embrace my individuality and celebrate it through my fashion choices. By affirming my uniqueness and the way my clothes express my personality, I boost my self-esteem and cultivate a more positive mindset towards fashion. This practice has become a crucial part of my routine, reinforcing the belief that I am not just dressing my body but also nurturing my spirit and confidence.
5. Stay Open to Learning
I always remind myself that fashion is an ever-evolving field, and staying open to learning is key. I make it a point to keep up with new styles and trends, considering how they might work for my body at this stage in my life. It’s a journey of discovery, finding out which trends complement my shape and which ones don’t. This openness to learning and adapting not only keeps my style fresh but also relevant.
Whether it's through fashion magazines, blogs, or simply observing the world around me, I gather inspiration and knowledge. This doesn’t mean I change my style with every new trend, but rather, I absorb what resonates with me and gracefully incorporate it into my wardrobe. It’s a beautiful process of growing and evolving with fashion, ensuring that my personal style continues to express who I am in the most authentic way.
6. Declutter with Purpose
I believe that a key step in refreshing my style for 2024 is to declutter my closet with purpose. This process isn't just about creating space; it's about reevaluating what truly resonates with my current style. I take the time to carefully go through each item, asking myself whether it aligns with the vision I have for my wardrobe this year.
I donate those pieces that no longer fit my style or haven't been worn in a long time. This not only benefits others but also brings me a sense of joy, knowing that my once-loved items will find new life with someone else. By clearing out the old, I make room for new pieces that truly reflect my 2024 style goals, creating a wardrobe that is both intentional and refreshing. This decluttering process is deeply rewarding and sets a clear path for my fashion journey ahead.
7. Focus on Fit, Not Size
When it comes to my personal style, I've learned that the fit of my clothes is way more important than the size. I always choose clothes that flatter my body shape because a well-tailored outfit can make a huge difference in my look. For me, the key is all about how the clothes feel on my body and how they make my features stand out. I've discovered that a garment that fits perfectly can be life-changing - not only does it feel good, but it also makes me look fabulous.
Investing in tailored pieces has been a total game-changer for me. Whether it's a pair of trousers that fit like a glove, a tailored blazer, or a custom-fit dress, the right fit can do wonders. It feels amazing to wear clothes that are designed to fit my body rather than trying to fit into a size that's just not right. This approach has not only improved my style but also made me appreciate the artistry in fashion.
I highly recommend exploring the world of tailored clothing. It's an investment in your comfort, style, and confidence, and the benefits are endless. A tailored piece doesn't just fit your body; it complements it, making your personal style shine with elegance and confidence.
8. Connect with a Community
One of the most enriching aspects of my style journey has been connecting with a community, specifically through The Champagne Circle. Being a part of this fashion-focused group, whether online or in-person, offers me a space to share ideas, draw inspiration, and support others in their style evolution.
Within The Champagne Circle, I've found a vibrant community of like-minded individuals who appreciate fashion and style as much as I do. It's a place where we celebrate each other's unique tastes and encourage one another to step outside our comfort zones. This connection not only boosts my confidence but also adds a layer of joy and positivity to my fashion experiences. The Champagne Circle is more than just a group; it’s a source of inspiration and a reminder that style is a journey best shared with others.
9. Adapt Trends to Your Taste
I've always believed that not every fashion trend will resonate with me, and I’m perfectly okay with that. My approach is to adapt the trends I like in a way that suits my personal style. For instance, if a particular season is all about bold patterns and I prefer something more subdued, I might incorporate those patterns in smaller accessories or a single statement piece rather than a full outfit. This way, I stay current but true to my own taste.
It’s a balancing act between exploring new trends and maintaining my signature style. By selectively choosing elements from the latest fashions and blending them with my classic pieces, I create a look that's both fresh and uniquely me. It's about making the trend work for me, not the other way around.
10. Cultivate a Positive Body Image
I strongly believe that fashion is as much about how I feel as how I look. That's why I focus on cultivating a positive body image. To me, this means embracing my unique beauty at every opportunity and allowing my confidence to shine through in my fashion choices. I've learned to celebrate my body's journey and honor its changes, dressing in a way that makes me feel proud and joyful.
By choosing clothes that flatter my shape and reflect my personal style, I am making a statement that I love and respect myself. This approach has taught me that confidence truly is the best accessory I can wear. It doesn’t just complement my outfit; it transforms it, infusing every look with a sense of self-assurance and poise.